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The Dip by Seth Godin – Notes Part 1

These are some notes that I made when I was reading through Seth Godin’s book, The Dip, which I highly recommend.  You can buy it HERE.

Quit the wrong stuff.

Stick with the right stuff.

Have the guts to do one or the other.

Scarcity makes being at the top worth something.

Anyone who is going to hire you, buy from you, recommend you, vote for you, or do what you want them to do is going to wonder if you’re the best choice.

Best as in: best for them, right now, based on what they believe and what they know.  And in the world as in: their world, the world they have access to.

People who are the best in the world specialize at getting really good at the questions they don’t know.  The people who skip the hard questions are in the majority, but they are not in demand.

Strategic quitting is the secret of successful organizations.  Reactive quitting and serial quitting are the bane of those that strive (and fail) to get what they want.

The Dip is the long slog between starting and mastery.  A long slog that’s actually a shortcut, because it gets you where you want to go faster than any other path.

The Dip is a long stretch between beginner’s luck and real accomplishment.

Scarcity is the secret to value.

The Dip creates scarcity; scarcity creates value.

The people who set out to make it through the Dip – the people who invest the time and the energy and the effort to power through the Dip – those are the ones who become the best in the world.  They are breaking the system because, instead of moving on to the next thing, instead of doing slightly above average and settling for what they’ve got, they embrace the challenge.  For whatever reason, they refuse to abandon the quest and they push through the Dip all the way to the next level.

In a competitive world, adversity is your ally.  The harder it gets, the better change you have of insulating yourself from the competition.  If that adversity also cause you to quit, though, it’s all for nothing.

The reason we’re here  is to solve the hard problems.

It’s not enough to survive your way through this Dip.  You get what you deserve when you embrace the Dip and treat it like the opportunity that it really is.

A woodpecker can tap twenty times on a thousand different trees and get nowhere, but stay busy.  Or he can tap twenty thousand times on one tree and get dinner.

It’s human nature to quit when it hurts.  But it’s that reflex that creates scarcity.

Simple:  If you can’t make it through the Dip, don’t start.  If you can embrace that simple rule, you’ll be a lot choosier about which journeys you start.

Quitting creates scarcity; scarcity creates value.

If you can get through the Dip, if you can keep going when the system if expecting you to stop, you will achieve extraordinary results.  People who make it through the Dip are scarce indeed, so they generate more value.

I’d rather have you focus on quitting (or not quitting) as a go-up opportunity.  It’s not about avoiding the humiliation of failure.  Even more important, you can realize that quitting the stuff you’re mediocre at or better yet quitting the Cul-de-Sacs frees up your resources to obsess about the Dips that matter.

Worse, when faced with the Dip, sometimes we don’t quit.  Instead, we get mediocre.

Not just survive the Dip, but use the Dip as an opportunity to create something so extraordinary that people can’t help but talk about it, recommend it, and, yes, choose it.

Steering Through Chaos by Scott Wilson

One of the most difficult things in life is to be able to navigate through stormy gales and to not take on water at the same time.  Doing so alone is one thing, but having to lead a team and a church through the same situations and transitions can be troubling.  Thankfully for us, Scott Wilson has penned his recent book, Steering Through Chaos, as a set of guidelines and map points to move us through the transitional period with tact, vision, and insight.

A few quotes sum up that invaluable information covered within these pages:

“Your church will grow only to the level of your pain threshold.”

“I decided that day that if I was going to suffer pain, it made more sense to endure the pain of growth, the pain that results, from following a God-sized vision, rather than just enduring the pain involved in suffering each day.”

“It is possible to thrive in the midst of transition.  To do this, though, you’ll need to have a clear vision of God’s calling, excellent communication, relationships of affirmation and authenticity, and tenacity.”

With a great wealth of wisdom from Pastor Wilson and input from leaders across the country including Dino Rizzo, Tim Stevens, and Greg Surratt, this book is an exceptional tool in creating our churches to what God has called them to be.

This resource will help transform you, your church, and your people.

Get the book HERE!

Part 2 from Dr. Rutland’s Pastoral Leadership Conference

Well yesterday, I wrote about discovering your spiritual DNA.  I seem to be a Macro, then I go to projected (with a dotted line to past), then to Head.  I am an analyzer.  Sometimes to a fault.  I live for the future, but I also identify with the past in our church.  Growing up at The Assembly for nearly 33 years and 11 months exactly today, I love and appreciate those who have come before and paved the way that we are traveling on now.  I’ll never forget that, but I never want to be so attached to it that I cannot move forward.

Staying, seldom is a motivating factor.  Going forward and going backward are motivating factors.

I know we have all heard  about “creating a mission statement” and have read numerous books telling us to do so.  I have never fully understood the full reason “why” to do it.  Sure it give you focus, but then what?

Yesterday, Dr. Rutland spelled it out clearly.  I’m a worm compared to him, but hopefully I can use my vernacular to convey his message.

Here is what this graph looked like:

Mission

Vision

Strategy

Tactics

Purpose

Function

At the top is the Mission statement.  It is the compass of the church.  Morally, missionally and ethically.

Next is the Vision.  Dr. Rutland stated that “the energy is in the vision, not in the mission”.  He said that this is somewhat contrary to some of the opinions in the marketplace.

Vision drives it, but the Mission keeps it from driving over the cliff.

Next is the strategy.  Many people think that strategy and tactics are the same, however they are not.  Strategy is a set of plans, goals, ideas and thresholds, whereas tactics are how you respond to an immediate moment.

Micro-management is actually tactical interference.

The final two steps are purpose and function.  Purpose is why you do it.   Function is the actual thing you do.

So many people worry about the function that they stand in the way of the purpose.

What is your function in the church?  Are you supporting the purpose and ultimately the vision and the mission?

Think about this….

The vision for Moses was to get these slaves out of Egypt and into the land of milk and honey.  These people were slaves and were abused for years.  Moses couldn’t give them the vision and mission of a monastic Davidic kingdom that will rule the land  and all the tribes.  They were slaves.  You can’t sell them on nation building.  They just needed the vision of a land flowing with milk and honey.

After the Egyptians  were swept over by the Red Sea, they could have gone back over the sea and conquered Egypt.  Think about it.  The entire Egyptian army was gone and floating in the Red Sea.  No one was left to defend Egypt.  That’s the place where the world’s commerce was.  Where the riches were.  Why wouldn’t they go back and conquer the land?  Why not?  Because their mission was to get to a land that was flowing with milk and honey.  Going back to conquer the Egyptians did not fall into that mission.

I have three more thoughts for you all.

#1.  I love this verse that is found in the Phillips bible in 1 Corinthians 2:16:

Those of us who are spiritual will think the thoughts of God.

#2.  There is a loneliness to leadership and it lies within intuitive leadership.

#3.  Remain humble.  Remember you are a broken person serving a broken people leading them to a whole and Holy God.

Part 1 from Dr. Rutland’s Pastoral Leadership Conference

I am still trying to digest all of the incredible tools that Dr. Rutland, President of Oral Roberts University, placed in my head and in my heart today. I will try to put some of this into words to best describe it. It was simply amazing. If you ever get a chance to hear him, whether it’s live, streaming their chapel services online, or at a marriage conference with his wife Alison, I highly recommend that you sit and gain wisdom from him.

He started today’s discussion with this wonderfully humorous quote:

In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.

Without creating a full blown table, hopefully this will work for you.

Dr. Rutland gave us this table to determine the DNA of your church and your own personal DNA.

Meta Macro Micro

Past Present Projected

Heart Head Hands

Imagine that in a grid. The top line determines how you look at an issue. Do you see every small issue? Then you are a “micro”. See the elephants but not the mice? “Meta.”

The next line determines the periodicity with which you think. Are you attached to the past? Thinking in the present? Planning for the future?

The bottom line determines how you think. Do you think about how your decisions will affect the people? That’s the heart. Are you analytical? That’s your head. Do you just want to know how to get it done? That’s a “hands” thinker.

The Micro-Past-Heart people seem to be the most difficult to deal with. They are largely found in small, rural, blue collar psychosocial thought patterns.

The Macro-Projected-Head and Hands are usually the easiest to work with. They are normally suburban, independent, white collar, business-oriented types of people.

We have to learn how to determine the DNA of our churches and our people, especially those on our staff. There are always other people involved in your story.

This is just Part 1 of his discussion from Wednesday. I will write Part 2 tomorrow, which covers Mission and Vision for your church and for you personally. He gave one of the most eye-opening and profound thoughts on the people of Egypt. I can’t wait to share it with you.

Til then…….

New RSS iPhone app

I have been using MobileRSS for some time now, but switched to Newstand last night. It is honestly one of the most incredible apps on the market for the iPhone.

If you read RSS feeds for blogs, like I do, then you need to download this. It has fully integrated with Twitter, facebook, bit.ly and many others. There is no reason to go outside of the app to tweet a blog post or recommend it to anyone or even shorten the URL.

It is not a free app, but if you utilize the RSS feeds, it is completely worth it.

Just my two cents.

Blogs that I read daily…

Which blogs are you reading on a daily basis?  I personally use Google Reader and MobileRSS on my iPhone to catch up everyday.  Here’s what I follow:

Church Leaders and Technology

BeDeviant - Justin Wise is a religious deviant who enjoys coffee, reading theology, graphic design, and spending time with his wife and son while creatively exploring the riches of the Spirit of Christ. 

Church Crunch - John Saddington is the Senior Editor for ChurchCrunch and when he’s not blogging here or at Human3rror he can be found either in the offices at North Point Ministries, changing the online world with North Point new Online Experience.

Human3rror – This is John Saddington’s other blog which covers great information on technology, namely WordPress themes and ideas for bloggers.

Daniel C. Berman – Great blog about the Church and how technology,such as social media, has affected how we do Church now.

David Housholder – David Housholder is the pastor of Robinwood Church in Huntington Beach, CA, a Spirit-filled, Bible-grounded, empowerment-teaching, Jesus-centered, family-friendly, multi-cultural, grace-based church that warmly embraces everyone, especially the most hurting and broken.

Digital Leadnet - “A church tech blog for non-techies”.  They have team of contributors that have a finger on the pulse of the latest technology trends and they explain what that means for the church.  Good stuff.

GL2010 - This is the site for the Global-Local intiative at my church, The Assembly at Broken Arrow.  It is written by our Outreach Pastor, Travis Rutland.

Going To 11 – A blog about technology in the church.  Written by Dave Stagl, the FOH engineer at North Point Community Church in Atlanta, GA.  The blog is named after a scene in Spinal Tap…it’s gotta be good, right?

Ben Arment - This is the blog of Ben Arment who is a  former church planters.  He is the founder of The Whiteboard Sessions and now STORY, which you can experience at StoryChicago.com.

Man of Depravity – Blog written by Tyler Braun is about church ministry, seminary, and worship within the context of the local church.  Good, intellectual stuff.

Perry Noble - Perry Noble is the Senior Pastor of NewSpring Church, located in Anderson, SC. These are the writings of a man who is out of his mind. It states in II Corinthians 5:13 that “if we are out of our mind, it is for the sake of God; if we are in our right mind, it is for you.” That verse describes him well.  Very creative and insightful.

Ragamuffin Soul – This is a site written by worship leader, Carlos Whitaker.  He brings alot of humor and value to his writings every day.

Stephen Brewster – Brewster is the Director of Marketing for Integrity Music and writes directly from the heart with passion regarding his love for God and the advancement of His mission.  A definite follow.

Stuff Christians Like - This is one of the top reads on the internet in regards to Christianity.  Jon Acuff incorporates humor and brilliant writing when composing his thoughts for all of us to read. 

The Batterson Blog - Written by national writer and pastor Mark Batterson.  He is a tremendous writer as shown in his books like Primal (his latest release) and In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day (his most popular).

Tony Morgan Live - Tony is the Pastor of Ministries at West Ridge Church near Atlanta. He’s also a strategist, coach, writer, speaker and consultant who equips leaders and churches to impact their communities for Christ. More important, he has a passion for the people. He’s all about helping people meet Jesus and take steps in their faith.

And for some good ol’ humor:

Oddly Specific – Photos of some really interesting signs that are posted around this beautiful world of ours. 

Totally Looks Like – Pretty self explanatory.  Celebrity look-alikes.

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